My friend Sean posted something a while back on what he is looking for in a mate. His list was pretty specific but who am I to judge. If that's what he needs to be happy then so be it. The first time I read his list I actually laughed for while, but then it started to eat at me. What the hell do I want? I sure as hell haven't found it yet. Getting to specific can't be to good, you might end up missing out by setting up all of these parameters. Having general guidelines can't hurt, although some say you can't see it coming. After some brainstorming here is what I came up with. It's not perfect but it a general list of things I dig in a girl.
-Strong sense of family. My famliy life wasn't the best growing up so I want the opposite.
-A little crazy, outgoing. I am pretty mellow and chill so I need something to balance me out.
-Likes to have fun. No homebodies, need to get out. Drinking is cool but no smokers. I don't smoke so I don't want to kiss an ash tray. No drunks, I have a big enough problem for two.
-Doesn't have to be a fitness model but health must be important. If someone doesn;t care about themselves how can they care about you.
-Open minded. I an wierd as shit so they have to be willing to accpet it.
-Looks are important. Anyone who says otherwise is lying.
-On par on an intellectual level. I don't want to spell out every other word and I don't to feel like an idiot.
Sure, I've messed around with chicks who don't check all the blocks, but in the long term you gotta have something real. You don't want someone just liek yourself you can get bored. Someone who is totally opposite usually starts off hot but burns off quickly when you realize you have nothing to talk about.
I'm not sure what that accomplished or why I felt it was necessary. I think the constant talk of friends getting married or having kids has it on my mind. Like I said before, when it happens it happens, just roll with it.
No worries,
KC
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